Sermons

A Message to the Glad and the Sad

Charles Haddon Spurgeon August 17, 1884 Scripture: Job 22:29 From: Metropolitan Tabernacle Pulpit Volume 43

A Message to the Glad and the Sad

 

“When men are cast down, then thou shalt say, There is lifting up; and he shall save the humble person.” — Job xxii. 29.

 

THIS is Eliphaz, the Temanite, who is speaking, and he is telling Job what he thinks would be the condition of a man who had been sincere. He says that, surely, God’s presence would be with him; the light should shine upon his ways; and then, when he was himself happy in the light of God, when other men were cast down, he would be able to say to them, “There is lifting up.” Keeping that thought in mind, I will commence my discourse, this evening, by observing that, if any of us have light, it is not given to us for ourselves alone. There is nothing selfish in the gifts of God. The Jews were elected to receive the oracles of God, but it was in order that they might keep them for the rest of us, that in the midst of Israel the lamp of truth might be trimmed and kept burning for the nations that then waited in darkness. When God calls any man by his grace, it is with a view to others. Your salvation has many hooks to it, with which to draw on the salvation of many more. If a man is truly converted, the influence of his conversion will spread to others; it is an act of mercy from God to him with a view also to his children, his friends, his neighbours, his dependants. It is the same with the light in the believer’s heart. When thou art very merry, shut not up thy mirth within thine own soul, but sing psalms that others may hear thy gladness. When God makes thee a feast, eat not thy morsel alone; but call in many of the poor, and the lame, and the halt, and the blind, that they may feast with thee, for there are many such in God’s family, and they will be glad to come to spiritual as well as to temporal feasts. If thy face be made to shine in the light of God, it is not that thou mayest see it, for Moses “wist not that the skin of his face shone”; but it is that others may see what a light God has put in thy countenance, and may rejoice in that light. I fear that many Christian people have lost their comfort through trying to keep it to themselves. The manna was sweet, and they had gathered more than they could eat; they went, therefore, to their chest, and stored it up, and expected to go on the morrow, and have another feast all to themselves. But when they lifted the lid, — ah! you know what happened to manna if they kept it till the morning; and our joys also will breed worms and stink (that is the plain English of it,) when we keep them to ourselves. They are meant to be scattered abroad. In this respect, “There is that scattereth, and yet increaseth; and there is that withholdeth more than is meet, but it tendeth to poverty.”

     Now, coming to our text, my talk will be on this wise. First, I will try to show you what the happy Christian ought to dowhat downcast people ought to do.

     I. First, then, WHAT THE HAPPY BELIEVER OUGHT TO DO: “When men are cast down, then thou shalt say, There is lifting up.”

     Well, he ought to do this first, he should notice those who are cast down. We are such foolish creatures that, sometimes, when the Lord trusts us with a happy experience, we begin to grow mightily proud, and we look down upon his tried and afflicted people. Even among those who do know the Lord, if they have a very charming experience, and enter into high fellowship with God, there is a tendency to begin to think that the poor doubting and fearing ones are very much to be censured and blamed, or, at any rate, that they are to be ignored, and left to themselves. “Well,” says someone, “really it quite depresses me to talk with old Mrs. So-and-so. I could not keep my joy if I were to go and try to encourage that young man who is always so cast down.” Ah, my dear friend, but if you begin to talk like that, it may not be long before you will even envy that old lady you now despise, and wish you were half as hopeful of salvation as that young man whom you just now condemned! Remember that, when the fat cattle begin to push with horn and with shoulder, the Lord knows how to bring their fat down very speedily, so that they can be trusted among the lean cattle without being so domineering over them. The duty of a happy Christian is to take notice of those who are not so joyous as he is, to seek them out, to condescend to men of low estate. When thou hast abundant provision in thy house, it is thy duty to send portions to those for whom nothing is prepared. Mind that thou attendest to this matter, lest thy Lord should put thee on short commons, too, and make thee feel a little more as thou oughtest to do towards the afflicted.

     The next thing a happy Christian ought to do is, when he has noticed and found out the sad ones, he should go arid talk to them. “When men are cast down, then thou shalt say, There is lifting up.” I often speak upon this subject, and therefore I cannot say anything new; but I do wish to say over again that, if all joyful believers, who have attained to full assurance of faith, would oftener speak to troubled ones, they might do a vast amount of good. I think, dear friends, that you miss many opportunities of serving the Lord through forgetfulness or through diffidence. I notice that, when converts do not begin to speak a little for Christ very early in their Christian career, they become tongue-tied; that is how we get so many dumb members of the church, who seem as if they could not offer up a prayer to save their lives; and what is worse, they cannot talk to their personal friends about the things of God. It is a very great pity that it is so; and I think I must have an operation performed on some of you children who are dumb. It is a very sad thing for the father of a family to have a number of children who never speak. There is a sweetness about every child’s voice, is there not? There is a different tone, a different form of speech with each child, and it would not content the head of the household if he could say, “I can hear the older ones speak, but the youngest is quite silent.” We want them all to open their mouths, to begin their speech with childlike prattle, and then we shall be glad when they can all speak plainly the language of the land in which they were born. Dear Christian people, do try to be speaking Christians; especially when you come across any who are cast down. Remember what you yourself owe to some loving word spoken by a brother or sister in years gone by. Will you not repay it by speaking comfort to some of the sorrowing ones? Many of you owe your hope of heaven to the preaching of the Word. It may be that you cannot preach, and if you attempted it, you would be very unwise; but do try, with such ability as you have, to tell at least to one other bondaged one that there is liberty to be had, that his chain may be cut, and that he may escape from the taskmaster’s hand. Say to him, “Though thou art cast down, there is lifting up.” Find out the sad and sorrowful, and speak to thorn, and so be, each one of you, according to your ability, a comforter by the gracious aid of the Holy Spirit. The particular thing I would have you say to them is this, remind them of the promises of God. When any persons say to you, “Well, if 1 were to meet with a desponding person, I should not know what to do,” tell them to commence by quoting a promise from the Scriptures. When that eminent German critic, Bengel, the very father of true Biblical criticism, lay sick, he was very sorely tried with doubts and fears, and he therefore sent for a young man from the College, and said to him, “Young brother, it is very dark with me; I want you to say something that will cheer me.” But the youth answered, “My dear sir, you are an old man; you cannot expect me to say anything that can comfort you.” “But,” said Bengel, “you are a student of divinity, and you will have to speak to men, like me, who are cast down, if you are to do any real service in the ministry; I hope you will have something cheering to say to me.” “Then, sir,” the student replied, “I do not know that I can say anything to you except that ‘This is a faithful saying, and worthy of all acceptation, that Christ Jesus came into the world to save sinners.’” “Ah!” exclaimed Bengel, “what better thing could you have said? You have opened a window for me.” When that great saint and preacher, Augustine, lay dying, — and I venture to say of Augustine that, among all who were born of women, there has hardly ever been a greater than he, — his mind was equal to any philosophy for its depth, its length, and its breadth, — and as an instructor in theology he still remains, under Christ, next to the apostle Paul, the master-teacher of the churches, — yet, as he lay dying, he asked to have certain texts of Scripture printed in large capitals. Which do you suppose he chose? You may think that he selected some deep and mysterious passage about the high doctrine which he so greatly loved; but he did nothing of the kind. He chose those texts of Scripture which we commonly quote to sinking sinners, — such as these: “He. that believeth on the Son hath everlasting life,” “Whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved,” — and that great saint feasted his dying eyes on the texts which we usually give to babes in Christ’s faith, or those who are seeking the Saviour, for they just suited him then.

     I want you who are very happy, you whom the Lord has made joyous and glad, so that you keep high festival from January to December, and all your days seem like heaven upon earth, — and there are some of us who have come to that blessed point, — to be sure to tell to others those rich and gracious words of God which abound in the Scriptures. Have them at your fingers’ end, so that you can find them in the Bible; have them at your tongue’s end, so that you can quote them without turning to the Bible; have them in the very centre of your heart, so that they shall cheer and warm you, and that the heat from them shall radiate to warm others also. It is a very bad stove that lets all the heat go out at the top of the chimney; we want a grate that will throw the warmth into the room. I pray that God may make us distributors of joy among those who have little or none of it in themselves.

     We ought, with those who are cast down, not only to tell them the promises, but we should tell them our own experience. A recital of our personal experience of God’s goodness often helps a poor soul who is in deep trial. Just draw a chair up, and sit by the sick one’s bedside, and say, “I sought the Lord, and he heard me,” “This poor man cried, and the Lord heard him.” If you can tell something that happened to you when you were in a condition similar to that of the person you are trying to comfort, you have hit the nail on the head. Who can cheer the widow like those of you who are widows? Who can comfort a bereaved mother like one who has been herself bereaved? Who can speak with a man in a great business trial like one who has been in much the same business, and has been a loser, too? You feel so glad, somehow, that there is sympathy left in the world, that there is somebody whose face has been furrowed and tearstained like your own. So, tell your own experience, dear friends. If you have not any, do not tell it; but if you have, spread it abroad to the honour of your great Father’s name, that others may be encouraged. Tell them, when they are cast down, that there is lifting up, for you were cast down, and you were lifted up; tell them that God dealeth thus with his children, and brings them low on purpose that they may see the power of his hand when he lifteth them up.

     If you do this, you may hope to be successful in cheering other people. Our text says, “When men are cast down, then thou shalt say, There is lifting up; and he shall save the humble person,” and as the next verse puts it, very often the good man will “deliver the island of the innocent.” When it is in danger, the godly man shall interpose, and God will hear his prayer, and God’s suffering people shall be screened from danger. To all of you who are very joyful and happy, I would say, — Do not go to bod until you have found out somebody who is sitting in darkness, to whom you can say, “Friend, the Lord has, by his grace, made my lamp burn very brightly, so I have brought it to you, that your lamp may be lighted, too.” There is so much misery in this world that none of us ought to add to it; some, alas! do so by their nasty speeches, their cross-grained tempers, their cutting, sarcastic observations, and sometimes by their slanderous judgments. Let us, on the contrary, seek to increase happiness and joy wherever we can; let us try to cheer all the disconsolate, and spread throughout this weary world some of that savour of rest which the Lord smelled oh old in Noah’s sacrifice, and which he makes us also to rejoice in as we take Christ’s yoke upon us, and learn of him, and so find rest unto our souls.

     II. Now, secondly, I will pass on to tell you WHAT DOWNCAST PEOPLE OUGHT TO DO.

     What should they do when we speak to them in the spirit I have described? Ought they not to respond to our desire to comfort them? You know, dear friends, you cannot comfort a man against his will. You may lead a horse to the water, but you cannot make him drink. You may bring forward the most cheering promises, but you cannot lay them home to the heart that is weary if it refuses to receive them. What ought those who are cast down to do in order to help us in the task of cheering them?

     Well, first, they should remember that they are not infallible. The most infallible people I have seen are those who are very much cast down, for they know so much better than we do who try to comfort them. “Ay, ay!” they exclaim, “that is all very well for you to talk like that, but if you were in our circumstances, it would be a very different thing.” Then you quote what you judge to be a suitable promise, but they say, “That does not apply to our case,” and they spy out some little real or supposed difference by which they escape from the comfort you are so anxious to administer to them. Some people are wonderfully ingenious in inventing a great variety of processes of self-torture. In the black days of the Spanish Inquisition, with their thumb-screws, and their racks, and their Virgin’s embrace, and other diabolical things, they went a very long way in torturing their fellowmen; but even the Spanish Inquisition had nothing like as much cleverness as the little inquisition that men and women set up in their own souls with which to torture themselves. About a month ago, you remember that my text was concerning those fools who abhor all manner of meat, and there are still some persons of that kind left in the world. This dish is too hot, and that is too cold; this joint is too tender, and that other is too tough; they do not like this drink because it is so sweet, others cry out because it is so sour; their food is never cooked so as to suit them, but “their soul abhorreth all manner of meat.” My dear friend, without being in the least sarcastic, but speaking to you very tenderly, I should like to hint that you do not know everything, after all. Though you may be a peer in the realm of misery, yet all wisdom does not lie with peers, in whatever house they may dwell. They sometimes make mistakes; and, perhaps, you also are making a mistake just now. Is it not just possible that some of us know at least a little which you do not know, which might really help you in your time of trouble? There is a saying that “lookers-on see more than players,” and I believe that, often, lookers-on can see the needs of a man’s case better than he can see them himself. If you were not much of a seaman, and were out at sea, tossed up and down, and almost ready to perish through the fury of the waves, I think you ought not to be above taking warning from the signal of some old sailor who can tell you just what you ought to do in the hour of your distress. Should you not be willing to say, “That man is not so much troubled as I am; his brain is clearer, his heart is calmer, I should not wonder but what he might direct me rightly”? The way for you sad souls to help us to comfort you, is for us to see that you are willing to receive the message that the comforter is anxious to bring you. Then the battle is well begun, and will soon end in a victory. Yet, how often, when we try to cheer the downcast, we meet with many who say, “We should never be convinced by that style of argument; it may be very good reasoning for some people, but it would never affect us.” If it had so happened that the style of address had been quite different, if the earnest pleader had spoken from quite another quarter of the heavens of truth, such a hearer would have said, “That is not the way to persuade me; there maybe a good deal for some minds in that style of talking, but to persons of my disposition and of my peculiar culture, there is no force about it.” I have met with this gentleman numbers of times, and I have heard him confute himself again and again. He has said to-day what he denied yesterday, and will repeat to-morrow. It has been his method constantly to say and to unsay, only he must always hinder all who would be the means of comforting him. I wish that any of us who may be in that state of mind would try to get out of it; because, if there be a good thing to be had, we ought not to need much persuasion to accept it; and if this good thing should be peculiarly necessary to our welfare, and somebody who cannot have any motive but our good should entreat us to think of it, I fancy that it would be a sensible thing on our part to give a sober and discreet hearing to what he has to say. Why, ordinarily, when we are unprejudiced, if we are driving along a road, and somebody holds up his hands to alarm us, we pull up to know what he means; and if anybody were to shout at our door in the middle of the night, we should be anxious to enquire what was the reason for the disturbance. If there be a fire near us, we are usually ready enough to be warned, or if there be any good news to be heard, we are usually eager to be informed concerning it; and it is a strange thing that, in matters which relate to our higher nature, our immortal soul, which is to live for ever in happiness or woe, we are so apt to refuse instruction, and turn a deaf ear to those who seek our good. I beg you, dear friends, to believe that, in these matters, you are not infallible, and that some people know more than you do.

     Next to that, you should be willing to believe what is reported to you by credible persons. Suppose any of us, who have been troubled as you now are troubled, come to you, and say, “Dear friend, you will got out of this horrible pit and miry clay; he that is cast down, as you now are, will be lifted up again. You are feeling the burden of sin; but there is mercy and pardon even for you. You say that you have no strength; but there is One who is both able and willing to give you strength. I went to the Lord when I was just as downcast as you now are; and when I rested wholly on him, I found mercy, and if you will do the same, you will find mercy, too. Do you not think that you ought to believe my testimony? Do you imagine that I would deceive you? I know your sorrow of heart makes you feel a little bitter, yet do not say, in your haste, “All men are liars,’ for there are many who can join me in testifying to the Lord’s pardoning mercy. If it is a matter touching your body, you will trust yourself with the doctor when you believe he has some ability as a physician, and, in like manner, ought you not, when Christian people earnestly tell you the truth about the good Physician, to say to yourself, ‘They would not deceive me; they are speaking in accordance with God’s Word; I will believe them, and I will believe God, and I will not doubt that, through faith in Christ, I shall have as happy an issue out of my soul-trouble as they have had’?” If you will not go as far as that, you must permit me to say that I think you are acting very wrongly, and that I really fear you desire to remain somewhat in the dark. I pray you, do believe, first, that you are not infallible, and do believe, next, that which Christians testify to you.

     Especially, dear sad heart, do believe the great truth of my text: “When men are cast down, there is lifting up.” Let me ask why you are cast down. “Oh!” you cry, “I am so sad because of my sin.” Then listen: “The blood of Jesus Christ his Son cleanseth us from all sin.” “All manner of sin and blasphemy shall be forgiven unto men.” “Come now, and let us reason together, saith the Lord: though your sins be as scarlet, they shall be as white as snow; though they be red like crimson, they shall be as wool.” Oh, that you would believe these testimonies of God concerning the putting away of sin, and not be cast down any longer! “But,” you say, “I have no righteousness, and I cannot be accepted of God without a righteousness. I thought I had one once, but I see that it is only a heap of filthy rags.” Just so; I am glad you have discovered that fact; but the Lord Jesus Christ came to earth, and worked out a perfect righteousness, which he puts upon every believing sinner. The righteousness of Christ will be set to your account, and imputed to you, if you believe in him; and then, with his spotless vesture on, you shall be, even in the sight of the Most High, holy as the Holy One. You are cast down, but “there is lifting up.” “Yes,” you say, “I know that the Lord says that there is lifting up; but I am so weak I cannot do anything.” Should you be cast down about that? The Lord Jesus Christ, by the Holy Ghost, is able to give you boundless strength. There is nothing that you will be called upon to do but what you shall be enabled to do if you will but trust the Lord. He will be your strength; he will help you to repent, he will help you to believe, he will help you to be gracious, to persevere, to resist temptation, and to conquer sin, if you will only trust him. You are cast down, but you have no need to be, for “there is lifting up.” I do not mind what it is about which you are cast down, dear soul, if you will but trust; all things are possible to him that believeth. Many of us have found it so ourselves, therefore we pray you to do as we have done; cease from all confidence in yourself, and rest wholly in Christ, for so shall you certainly find eternal salvation.

     Do not neglect to notice the second part of the text, for there is something else to be believed there, which is, that God will save the humble. The margin has it, “He shall save him that hath low eyes;” the man who looks low. Now, dear friends, are you a man who looks low? Some men are always looking up to the stars; their heads are swimming with conceit of their own excellence. God will not save such people; at least, not while they continue to be so proud. He will bring you down, if you are so high as that in your own estimation, for God will not give his glory unto another; but if you are a man who looks low, he will save you. You have been looking to yourself, have you? You cannot see anything bright there; all is dark. I am glad it is so, for you are the sort of man God delights to save. You have been looking down to the earth, and you wondered you were not in your grave, or in hell. That is right; you are the sort of man on whom God looks with approval. You thought that the very poorest of his people were worth ten thousand times as much as you were; you have envied the door-keeper in the house of God; you are the sort of man God will save. We have some people about who are so big, so good, so intelligent, so wonderfully cultured, and altogether such superior persons, that they cannot be content in any ordinary position. But these very superior persons in their own opinion, are generally despised by God, and by men, too; but those who think nothing of themselves, those who feel that they deserve only condemnation from God, and who say that, if he will but save them, it will be all of grace, the gratitude for which they can never express, — these are the people whom the text tells us that God will save. I do like to hear sinners give themselves a bad character, — I mean, not in pretence, but in real earnest. There was a brother came to me, the other night, in deep distress of soul. I let him tell me all his case; by what he said, he seemed to have been a terrible sinner, and when he had gone through the long black list, I said, as I looked at him, “You are the very man Jesus Christ came to save,” and then I began to pick out the texts of Scripture that suited his case. I know he thought Jesus Christ came to save good people; but nowhere in the Bible is there anything of that kind, though we are told that “Christ died for the ungodly.” I got my poor sinful friend to see that Christ came to take the place of the guilty, and that great truth of substitution laid hold upon him. I would that you might be led to the same point, and to say, “I am a sinner, and I trust the sinners’ Saviour.” If you are cast down on account of your sin, “there is lifting up.” God will save the humble, the man of low eyes. If you are as nothing in your own sight, God will save you; if you are less than nothing, and yet trust Christ, he will be your all in all. I would that every downcast soul in the world would simply believe the promise of God, and rest on it, trusting in Jesus, and in Jesus only.

     I have just two observations to make, and then I have done my sermon. First, what a very little difference there is, after all, between those who are up and those who are down! You, my brother, are full of joy, and you begin to comfort a man who has no joy at all. He tells you what a sinner he is; and if you feel as you ought, you say to yourself, “I was once just the same as this man now is, only perhaps he feels his sin more than I did.” And when you comfort and direct him, so that he says, “My faith would touch the hem of Christ’s garment,” I know it brings the tears into your eyes, and you say, “I will do the same; it may be that my past faith has been all a mistake, so I will begin again.” I like to meet with people who are always beginning, just resting in Christ after thirty years’ experience as they did at the first, and saying, “I am nothing, but Christ is everything; I am more and more decreasing, that he may more and more increase, and fill the full circle of my being to its utmost bound.”  

     Then, do you not think it would be a good thing if those who are very happy, and those who are very miserable, would alike give up walking by their feelings, and would both of them live by faith? If there were two women in Sarepta, and one of them had a bushel of meal and a great keg of oil, and the other had only just a little oil in a cruse, and a handful of meal in the barrel, — if they both lived by faith, it would not make any difference whether they had much or little meal and oil. Of the two, I should think that the one who had the big barrel would begin to see the meal diminish, and she might fret, while the woman who had so little, would never see her handful diminish, so she would not fret, for she lived by a miracle of faith; and I should think that the rich woman had better get down to be as poor as the other woman, and live in the best possible way, by faith in God. I find that I cannot get on when I live by my feelings. They are like a barometer, sometimes they point to “fair,” sometimes to “much rain.” There is very little in our feelings that is to be depended upon. The air may have something to do with them, or they may be affected by what we wear, or what we eat, or with the last person who spoke to us; — the most unreliable things in the world are our own feelings. Let us each one say, “Lord, I will believe thee though I feel heavy and dull; Lord, I will still believe thee, though I am now light and joyful. Lord, my hope is in thy Son, when I cannot see any evidence of grace in my soul; and my trust is alone in thy Son when all my evidences are bright and clear.” Our poor feelings may depend on which way the wind is blowing! When a man goes to France on business three times a week, he is not very particular to ask what sort of passage he will be likely to have; it is those who play at travelling that want to have the water as smooth as glass. So, children of God who do real business with their Heavenly Father, come to be almost indifferent whether they are very glad or very sad, for, after all, the safety of the man who crosses the sea does not depend upon his feelings, but on the boat in which he is sailing. So, our safety lies in the stability of the Christ to whom we have committed ourselves, and not in our feelings, which are as variable as the vapours that fill the sky. “Trust ye in the Lord for ever: for in the Lord Jehovah is everlasting strength.” Put down your own feelings, and lift up the cross of Christ; cling to him, and say, with Job, “Though he slay me, yet will I trust in him;” so shall it be well with you, both now and for ever. The Lord bless you all, for Christ’s sake! Amen.